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Couples Therapy Online
When conversations repeatedly end in the same arguments, the same silence, or a loss of closeness, online couples therapy with Birgit Fehst can help you regain clarity and connection. Individual sessions on the topic of relationships are also available online.
✓ Face to face but regardless of location
✓ Just as effective as in-person sessions
✓ Time-saving
Couples therapy online – professional, location-independent, and personal
In my couples therapy practice in Berlin-Mitte, I have been helping couples and individuals for many years to make their relationships clearer, more honest, and more vibrant—without clichés or pressure, but with genuine presence and sensitivity.
For several years now, I have also been offering my services online as couples counseling via video calls – in German and English, worldwide. Many couples appreciate the time savings, flexibility, and effectiveness of this modern form of online couples therapy. No matter where you live, we can work together online, regardless of location and on a personal level.
When is online couples therapy a good idea?
There are many reasons for deciding to undergo couples therapy. Some couples come because they argue a lot—others because they hardly talk to each other anymore.
Common topics in online couples counseling include:
• Communication problems & conflict behavior
• Sexual dissatisfaction or differing needs
• Breaches of trust, affairs, or jealousy
• Emotional alienation & lack of intimacy
• Decisions about separation or starting over
• Differing ideas about life plans (children, finances, division of roles)
The good news is that you don't have to solve everything on your own. Professional online couples therapy helps break through entrenched patterns and create more connection and understanding for each other again. Whether online or in person in Berlin, the important thing is that you take the step.
Online couples counseling process – How I work with you
During the initial consultation, we take the time to calmly examine your situation and set common goals. I ask questions such as:
• What exactly is not working well in your relationship right now?
• What conflicts or recurring issues are weighing on you?
• What do you want—in the short and long term—as a couple?
• What changes would be helpful for both of you?
It feels good to start talking to each other again—honestly, respectfully, and without blame. After the first session, many couples already feel how relieving it is to be understood. Between appointments, you will receive ideas, reflective questions, or small exercises for everyday life. This “homework” helps you to gain new experiences, improve your communication, and anchor real changes. You can find out more about the process of couples therapy here.
Who is online couples therapy particularly suitable for?
✓ For couples or individuals who do not live in Berlin.
✓ For couples in a long-distance relationship where both partners live in different places.
✓ For people who do not have time to come to the practice.
✓ For people who feel more comfortable staying at home in their familiar surroundings.
✓ For parents without a babysitter who have children who need care.
Online couples therapy – effective, confidential, and flexible
Online counseling for couples works—this has been demonstrated not only by studies, but also by my many years of experience. The big advantage is that it is just as effective as a session in the office—only more convenient. Many couples say that they can open up more freely and confidently in online sessions because they are in their familiar surroundings. And it saves a lot of time.
Even if you want to work on relationship issues on your own, individual counseling, which can also be booked online, is a modern and effective way to gain new clarity and inspiration.
Benefits of couples counseling online
✓ Location-independent: Whether you are in Berlin, Munich, Hamburg, or abroad, you can participate from anywhere.
✓ Time-saving: No commute, flexible appointments, and evening sessions available.
✓ Confidential: Protected setting, discreet environment.
✓ Effective: Clear structure, targeted methods, immediately noticeable effects.
✓ Suitable for everyday life: Practical ideas for your everyday relationships.
Many of my clients report that online couples therapy is not only practical, but also emotionally relieving. Working in a familiar environment often makes it easier to speak honestly.
Alternatives to online couples therapy
If you realize that you prefer personal contact, I also offer regular couples therapy sessions as well as couples therapy as an intensive day in my practice for couples therapy in Berlin-Mitte.
Technical Informations
A stable internet connection and a laptop or computer with a camera and microphone are sufficient. After you've confirmed the appointment, I'll send you an invitation link via email for you to dial in. You'll find all the important details about the session and how to dial in in the email. You can dial in together or from different locations.
Duration, costs & session booking
• Duration: 60 minutes per session
• Cost: €190 (individual appointments: €170)
• You can find more information about the costs of couples therapy and cancellation policy here.
Book your online couples counseling conveniently online—flexible, confidential, and tailored to your relationship.
If you have any questions, please send me an email or book your appointment quickly and easily via Doctolib.